2013年7月29日星期一

了解我自己

最近好玩在面子书上跟随一个叫天枰座蜜语的粉丝面。我把几段搬过来这里好好分析我自己一下。因为很多周围的人最近一直在叫我改变。要先了解自己的缺点,然后才能该。可是有些天生的性格能该吗?


"天秤座就像是天秤一样,每件事情都想做到平衡,可是有些事情必须取舍,所以你的天秤总是在犹豫不决,总是徘徊在人生无数的选择之中,这让你非常的苦脑,有的时候放下这种平衡,把自己内心最重要的想法表达出来就好了。"

对了,我就是找不到那个平衡点,我总是难无法做决定,所以到现在我还在原地踏步,我还是活在我的苦恼中。不过我已在为这个苦恼找个适合的出路了。

"天秤座的软肋:脾气有点大,表面温和到别人误以为很好欺负,其实内心脾气大的可怕;性格矛盾分裂,自尊超强;现实了,认真,看问题太透;孤独,缺乏安全感,自闭,忧郁;爱太深,比较容易受伤,受伤就选择逃避;喜欢乱想,想太多,爱纠结,超倔强。"

难怪我那么爱胡思乱想,常常自相矛盾,越想头脑就越打结。

"因为是天秤。所以很会吃醋,不论是对喜欢的人还是好朋友。 不太喜欢说话,但有话说的时候又说不停。 因为是天秤。希望平衡,却又如此矛盾。 因为是天秤。即使很累了,却仍紧绷着神经逗别人开心。 因为是天秤,所以很重感情,若在天秤的心里有段刻骨铭心的感情,一辈子都不会忘记的。"

要我忘记曾经爱过我和我曾经爱过的人是不容易的,是被重感情的脑神经牵系着,没办法!

"天秤基本上是个很痛苦的人。表面上总是很有活力,很快乐的样子,可是没人的时候他们又总是很忧伤。天秤总会被一种莫名的悲伤笼罩,他们不会让别人发现。天秤座的人很怕被伤害怕被抛弃,也怕带给别人伤害和不快乐,只能自己硬挺着一切。所以天秤很神经质、精神脆弱、容易感伤。"

所以我就适合做服务客户的行业,因为我我有活力和快乐的baby face, 让客人看到我就开心。不管我工作当天怎么个不开心,客人看到的还是我灿烂的笑容。幸好这个性格还可以给我找到个差事。不然我就只能当花瓶了。

"天秤不温柔、天秤脾气不好、 天秤容易生气、天秤容易吃醋、天秤容易心痛、天秤容易胡思乱想、天秤很任性、天秤生气时不想说话、天秤开心了会傻笑、天秤受委屈会放在心里、天秤在乎了就想被你知道、 天秤喜欢在伤心的时听伤心的歌、天秤喜欢在开心的时和在乎的人分享。"

同意全部的说法除了天枰不温柔。我不够温柔吗?等一下写完后我会去照妖镜子一下。

"亲爱的天秤:有一天你将破蛹而出,成长得比人们期待的还要美丽,但这个过程会很痛,会很辛苦,有时候还会觉得灰心。面对着汹涌而来的现实觉得自己渺小无力。但这,也是生命的一部分。做好现在你能做的,然后,一切都会好的。我们都将孤独地长大,不要害怕。"

说到我心里去了。。。

"天秤座的人都真性情,爱恨分明,总是口是心非。如果吵架,没有多想,一定下一句话说的比对方更狠,更没有退路,然后不知道得意个什么。要命的自尊,喜欢简简单单就好,不喜欢世俗,一根筋想问题。开心时候什么都能丢一边,不开心时候一句话也不愿意说。可是我爱这个星座,下辈子还要做秤子."


如果我老公能够了解一点点我这种神经兮兮的性情,那么他就不必整天说不明白我了,但是

从不尝试去捉摸我这个不稳定的性格,所以他永远也不会明白我。而我也是一样不明白,为什么他还是要继续跟一个他不想去了解的女人我在一起。希望他下辈子不要再遇到我,因为我下辈子还要做秤子。

2013年7月27日星期六

LOL

"I will save you but I have to go and brush my teeth first."

How many excuses can people come up with everyday?

I can think of two at the moment..out of my experiences :) :)

"I would have sex with you but let me finish watching "Sex in the city" first."

" OK Ok I am coming for dinner mom but let me die first." (Take a good guess what the kids were doing?)

I will add more later when I think of something. Or if you have any good one, please share it here :)

2013年7月25日星期四

Lady in Red

In normal circumstances, refer to today's title, I might write about myself because I love to wear red dresses and I know I look nice in red. Not any red though. I guess I have to thanks mom who always bought red dresses and skirts for me when I was a little girl. She didn't like people wearing black to our house, especially during Chinese New Year. 

I normally have to wear black in the weekends at work (Who has set this rules that one has to wear black while working at restaurant?) So other days in the weekday, I will try not to wear black anymore. Obs! Did't I just say I am not writing about myself, sorry :)!

My first baby chili has fully grown and finally wearing the red dress! One of the red color I like! I can't believe it was 5 months ago when I planted these chilies. I did that for fun actually and never thought that all the seeds I planted would survive and grow up healthfully.  I have lost counting how many chili they are now. By the time they all turn into red, I will definitely show their beauty here again. 

Right now I am just happy for the first baby's transform. 

5 months ago...
5 months later.

2013年7月24日星期三

月光(上弦月版)

昨夜,露台外的月光让我不禁想起这首歌。 我还是比较喜欢梅艳芳的中文歌曲多过广东歌曲。
希望你们也和我一样喜欢这首歌.
月光(上弦月版)

演唱: 梅艷芳

月色如水夜色孤獨
回首來時路已模糊
記憶的路眼淚的溫度
媽媽的苦我都清楚
許多夜我爬上屋頂月世界
燈火一盞一盞像在風裡哭
剩下一個我
裹著你給的衣服

找一個夢走一條路
你像月光夜夜在祈禱我幸福
照亮我踏的每一步
我不會哭我不會輸
我在月光守護的黑夜裡
看著自己真的像你
走你走過的路

月色如水夜色孤獨
回首來時路已模糊
記憶的路眼淚的溫度
媽媽的苦我都清楚
許多夜我爬上屋頂月世界
燈火一盞一盞像在風裡哭
剩下一個我
裹著你給的衣服

找一個夢走一條路
你像月光夜夜在祈禱我幸福
照亮我踏的每一步

我不會哭我不會輸
我在月光守護的黑夜裡
看著自己真的像你
走你走過的路

找一個夢走一條路
你像月光夜夜在祈禱我幸福
照亮我踏的每一步
我不會哭我不會輸
我在月光守護的黑夜裡
看著自己真的像你
走你走過的路

今夜讓我對你說這一句

我愛你

2013年7月23日星期二

Superwoman Me


I never knew I could look that super good in Superman's super outfit until Lisa sent me this via WeChat.

Lisa wrote," 刚刚小瓜拿出这张卡问我这卡通像清萍姨姨吗?哈!你那么可爱噢!
(Just now little melon took out this card and asked me does this cartoon look like qingping yiyi? Oh! You are so cute!)

This is how I look like in a 7 years old girl's eyes. Not bad at all! I can tell you my face looked even more cuter and cheerful when I received it...:) :) Of course I am flattered and happy, happy and happy that a little girl can see her 45 years old aunt as a cheerful person instead of a crappy old witch that looks ferocious , right?

For fun and curiosity I checked out how would other real superwoman look like in a comic or Hollywood world?
This one is too perfect to be me.
Although I don't mind to have that perfect figure and Diana Rose's hair style.

Hmm...this one.. well... I dare not compare myself with Megan Fox.
If I could, I would have challenged her place on the list of "100 sexiest woman in the world".
I might beat her, you never know, right? 

I might consider this one though..  I mean the hair style.
No way I would jeopardize my feminine curve into that muscular look.
Who said a superwoman has to look like a superman?
Conclusion:
I still LOVE Chlòe's version of me!  
The correct size and pattern of my glasses, 
the big Jackie Chan's nose, 
the OK melon haircut
 the round face 
.............and the sparkling eyes (although you cannot see the sparkling when they are hiding behind the glasses).

Thank you Chlòe!  :)

2013年7月21日星期日

Curry fish or sambal prawn?

One of my good friends in Malaysia is kind of teasing me about my new hobby. He wonders if I want to become a farmer because of my obsession of planting lately. I answered him,why not? 

I totally understand his curiosity because I couldn't stop myself keep on sharing the photos of my babies on Facebook. I am so excited about how healthy my tomato plants and all my chili babies have grown up to be. It’s my first time to plant something eatable and of course I am proud of my results. Its fun I can just pick the yellow tomatoes and put them into my month directly without washing it after all they are totally organic and not pesticides. 

Another friend wondered how I am going to use the chilies because I commended on my photos that this summer my kitchen is going to be hot and spicy. Good question. Its time for me to look up for some curry recipes. As usual, in Sweden, if you want to eat something authentic, you have to cook it yourselves. Talking about food, I am really craving for some Nyonya curry NOW!!! Can't write anymore, I am getting hungry! :( See you again soon...

Yesterday the morning sun at 5 o'clock shone through one of my baby chilies..


I have green curtains that cover all the windows in the kitchen this summer. 

Tomato plants that just keep on growing and growing and providing me healthy snack everyday.